Success stories with lessening anxiety and overcoming premature ejaculation?

well, i'll let you in on a little secret, let the first go. right before you have or something, go to the bathroom and masturbate the first one. it's ok, most men do last around 5 minutes with direct stimulation, you just have to learn to go at your own beat so you don't too fast. also, try giving her so she does once or twice so there is no pressure for you to perform.