Is it just me or does anyone else out there despise today - VALENTINE'S DAY?

Maybe your expectations are too high. If you don't expect anything you won't be disappointed. In my house we don't really do Valentine's Day either. I kind of got used to it. You know he won't fall for it so maybe you should just forget about it to lessen your depression. Maybe you could encourage him to do nice things like roses and cards and dates on random occasions rather than a specific day just because he should. That would mean more any way.